Thursday, December 9, 2010

Heterosexually Challenged People: Exploring Chicana and “Passing” African American Sexuality

Women, much like race and homosexuality, have been fighting through oppression for years.  As women, we did not earn the right to vote until the 19th Amendment was ratified in 1920.  African Americans have struggled through slavery and discrimination.  The Chicano culture has had to deal with their culture being shunned aside.   Race is still an issue in present day.  Lately, there have been many gay rights movements such as the quest for same-sex marriage.  Celebrities such as Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi are comfortable enough about their sexuality, they are public about it.  Recently, Ricky Martin came out too.  Using Cherrie Moraga’s essay, From a Long Line of Vendidas: Chicanas and Feminism, Nella Larsen’s novel Passing, and a variety of other readings, race and homosexuality will be explored in that, while they may have many similarities, being a homosexual, and a person of a different race face heterosexism in various ways.
In Cherrie Moraga’s From a Long Line of Vendidas: Chicanas and Feminism, Moraga describes the life of a Chicana, a Chicana feminist, as well as a homosexual Chicana— basically a combination in all three.  She states that the Chicano culture is male dominated, that “the boys are different” (Moraga 36) and that “the daughter must constantly earn the mother’s love” whereas “the son—he gets her love for free” (Moraga 37).  Moraga does go on to say she does not “mean to imply that women need to have men around to feel at home in [her] culture is influenced by men” (Moraga 45).  Men are the ones who theoretically have the better jobs, specifically white men. In La Chicana and the Intersection of Race, Class, and Gender by Irene Blea, Blea suggests that “the most valued and powerful persons in society are white Anglo men, followed by white females.  Men of color are less valued than white females, while minority females of color are the least valued of all” (Blea 147).
  Moraga goes on to tell the tale of La Malinche which basically boils down to women fucking a white man, specifically one who is considered to be destroying one’s culture.  Any Chicana having sexual intercourse with a white man is a way of turning her back on her culture.  Moraga agrees that Chicana women are stigmatized as sexual persons because of La Malinche.  For a Chicana to be a feminist is another way of turning her back on her culture yet Moraga contests that just because one is critical about their own culture does not mean they are betraying it.  Critiquing one’s own culture may seem “easiest” in that we live and breathe it everyday.  There are norms for a Chicana, just like any other race, that are to be followed, and anything else would be considered social deviance, and to be more stigmatized as a Chicana is to be a lesbian Chicana.  As Moraga points out, “homosexuality does not pose a great threat to society.  Male homosexuality has always been a ‘tolerated’ aspect of Mexican/Chicano society, as long as it remains ‘fringe’… but lesbianism, in any form, [as well as] male homosexuality which openly avows both the sexual and emotional elements of the bong, challenges the very foundation of familia” (Moraga 41).  Sonia Lopez backs up Moraga’s belief that homosexuality is a white-man’s disease inflicted upon Third World Peoples, saying, “lesbianism is not only a white thing, but an insult to be avoided at all costs” (Moraga 42).  As a Chicana, being a lesbian is seen as an act of “self-betrayal” when a woman takes control of her sexual destiny and she is also considered a “traitor to her race” contributing to the ever so depleting race of Chicana’s.
In Nella Larsen’s Passing, Larsen “explores the cultural identity and psychological positioning of modern black individuals unmarked by difference from whites” (Larsen ix).  In this particular novel, Larsen uses two light-skinned characters to explain the concept of those of African American heritage “pass” into white culture.  The concept of passing is when one is classified as one race, yet chooses to identify with another race.  In “passing” as white, they are “free” African Americans with limitations.  As women, I am sure they do not intend to uphold the tradition of being a working woman, in that white women do not work.  Yet there are those who can point out someone who is “passing” much like at the dance. 
Irene Redfield is married to a dark-skinned man, yet she likes to indulge herself in activities that stem from white culture; i.e. hosting parties (where white people do attend), and having tea in public places where one would not catch a person of color who is not “passing.”  Yet, she still remains an active part of the African American community; she refuses to completely pass therefore it can be said she only passes into the white culture to obtain the benefits of being white. 
Clare Kendry is married to a wealthy, racist white man who knows nothing of Clare’s African American heritage.  Clare disappeared from home when she was able to recognize that she was different then the darker-skinned brothers and sisters of her culture, and she never looked back, severing all ties to her past.  It was not until she ran into Irene, who was a childhood friend, while out to tea did she ever think about walking the line of passing as opposed to be completely over it.  Clare hides her race altogether from society, so when she was pregnant with her daughter Margery, she was terrified “for fear that she might be dark” but was elated when she was born and was light skinned enough to pass, concluding “I’ll never risk it again.  Never!  The strain is simply too—too hellish” (Larsen 36).  Even though Clare renounces her African American heritage, she cannot help but be amazed at it.  Clare attends the Negro Welfare League dance where white men and black men were present, and she dances with Ralph Hazelton who is “dark, with gleaming eyes, like a moonlit night” (Larsen 76).  Clare permanently passes into white culture, acting as a tourist to her own African American culture.  I consider Clare to be manipulative because she makes Irene feel the need to include her in activities such as the NWL dance.  She is also a tease, and I am not talking about being gender specific, for she flirts with the man who “drops her off” at the Drayton (which I believe is her husband John Bellew) where she gives him a “peculiar caressing smile” (Larsen14), as well as the [male] waiter at the Drayton where Clare gives “an odd sort of smile…a shade provocative for a waiter” (Larsen 15).  As far as women go, as a general rule, I think we flirt with life as a way to gain something we desire.  Women crave fashion, so as a general rule, we dress to impress… other women.  When we are being “watched” much like Irene was by Clare at the Drayton, we do what Irene does; “Feeling her colour heighten under the continued inspection, she slid her eyes down.  What, she wondered, could be the reason for such persistent attention?  Had she, in her haste in the taxi, put her hat on backwards?  Perhaps there was a streak of powder somewhere on her face.  Something wrong with her dress?” (Larsen 15), we fix ourselves.  It is easy how one can be confused with whether or not one is being flirted with sexually, or in the sense to get their way, or just in general kindness.
In reference to Clare being more into “passing” than Irene is given in a discussion they have while out to tea.  “‘You see, Clare, I’ve everything I want.  Except, perhaps, a little more money.’ At that Clare laughed.  ‘Of course,’ she declared, ‘that’s what everybody wants, just a little more money, even the people who have it.  And I must say I don’t blame them.  Money’s awfully nice to have.  In fact, all things considered, I think, ‘Rene, that it’s even worth the price’” (Larsen 28) of passing.  Moraga contends that if women marry outside their Chicana culture, she is turning her back on her race, whereas a Chicano can marry a white woman to climb the totem pole.
There are several sexual references in Passing between Clare and Irene that may deem them lesbians of color; if nothing else, the accusation of Irene being a lesbian of color.  Irene’s marriage to Brian is flawed; they rarely have sex and Brian makes references to Brazil which may signify sexual freedom.  Yet, sexual intercourse then is not what it is like present day and Elizabeth Roberts in A Woman’s Place: An Oral History of Working-Class Women 1890-1940 notes that “sexual intercourse was regarded as necessary for the procreation of children or as an activity indulged by men for their own pleasure, but it was never discussed in the evidence as something which could give mutual happiness..  No hint was ever made that women might have enjoyed sex… Many women regarded sex as something distasteful and unpleasant” (Roberts 84).  It is not to easy to tell about Clare’s marriage, other than it is built off of lie after lie because she refuses to reveal to Mr. Bellew her true identity.  When Clare comes along, Irene is a bit perturbed by her, but cannot seem to stay away.  The way Irene describes Clare inclines me to believe that Irene is miserably attracted to her, and does not even know it.  For example, in her first encounter with Clare Irene describes her as “an attractive-looking woman, with those dark, almost black, eyes and that wide mouth like a scarlet flower against the ivory of her skin.  Nice clothes too” (Larsen 14).  A few pages later, Irene continues to describe Clare while also describing Clare’s ability to “pass” saying, “She herself had always had it.  Just as she’d always had that pale gold hair, which, unsheared still, was drawn loosely back from a broad brow, partly hidden by the small close hat.  Her lips, painted a brilliant geranium-red, were sweet and sensitive and a little obstinate.  A tempting mouth… the ivory skin had a peculiar soft luster.  And the eyes were magnificent! Dark, sometimes absolutely black, always luminous, and set in long, black lashes.  Arresting eyes, slow and mesmeric, and with, for all their warmth, something withdrawn and secret about them…there was something about them something exotic” (Larsen 28).  As far as eyes are concerned, they tend to get people in trouble.  I, for one, have been accused of “eye-fucking” but I am not too sure if I ever really have.  Sure, they are the key to the soul, but like Clare, they hide some secrets.  Irene refers to Clare having a “husky voice” which can be deemed a sign of masculinity, regardless of sexual orientation.  Yet, even though Irene wants to avoid Clare, especially in her statement “she was through with Clare Kendry” (Larsen 31), getting over someone, especially if you are intensely attracted to them, is not that easy.  A time later, as Irene reflects on the letter Clare has sent to her, the reader gets the sense that Irene misses Clare because she says, “laying it aside, she regarded with an astonishment that had in it a mild degree of amusement the violence of the feelings which it stirred in her” (Larsen 51).  This may also foreshadow the killing/suicide of Clare from Irene.
Yet, Clare is not all sweet and innocent when it comes to her sexual passes towards Irene; deemed sexual or just typical woman-woman interaction.  An instance is when Clare is trying to get Irene to come to another get-together, as they part ways Clare says, “I’ll spend every minute of the time from now on looking forward to seeing you again” (Larsen 30). I understand, as women we do have certain ways we deal with other women.  We call each other “pet names” such as “sweetheart,” “dear,” “love,” yet I regard those as terms of endearment.  I often tell my friends, who are girls, that I “miss their face and need to see it a.s.a.p” but something about Clare saying, “if you could know how glad, how excitingly happy, I was to meet you and how I ached to see more of you… my love to you always and always” (Larsen 46) is just a little too “friendly.”  There are three sentences in this letter from Clare to Irene that make me believe that Clare is coming out of the closet as well; “your way may be the wiser and infinitely happier one.  I’m not sure just now.  At least not so sure as I have been” (Larsen 47).  Yet, Clare has also caught Irene in the sense that Irene is a lesbian.  Perhaps my favorite scene in the novel, in regards to Irene and Clare being lovers, is when Clare is describing when she would go to the post office and wait for Irene’s letter, one that would never come, and that the post office was probably thinking that Clare was involved in some love-affair and was being stood up by a man, when in fact, it was really a woman.
Frieda Smith would be a great role model for Irene had Irene been around when her speech, “Frieda Smith Tells It Like It Is” was given in 1971.  Irene is “passing” into the white culture to gain its benefits, which very well may include the, I guess one could say, “acceptable” version of homosexuality because she would be considered white.  Smith says “if you aspire to a managerial or professional position, you have two choices: a life devoid of love and sex (and if you are single, this often excludes heterosexual sex), or a life in the closet living in constant fear of detection and loss of the position regardless of the performance of your work” (1971).  Ellen DeGeneres would also be a great role model because she backs up Smith’s statement; Ellen was what many would consider, at the peak of her career when she came out and she faced heavy criticism.  Her current partner, Portia de Rossi, remembers seeing Ellen come out, and the scrutiny she faced, and de Rossi knew in some way she was different.  Gradually, modern society “accepted” it.  I pick on Ellen because I think she is a stand-up woman; literally, I love her comedy, yet she is also of Anglo heritage. 
To be a lesbian of color, let alone of African American heritage, in the 1920s was unacceptable, “passing” or not.  Like Moraga explains about lesbianism is a “white-man’s disease”, Irene sees her homosexuality as a disease, something she must hide from and from the world.  Just as in the Chicana culture Moraga explains about preserving the family, Irene wants to remain closeted to do just that; avoid shame to her and her family.  Yet, Cherrie Moraga has suffered her share of defeats in the Chicana community for being a lesbian, and she comes flat out saying, “I am a Chicana lesbian.  My own particular relationship to being a sexual person; and a radical stand in direct contradiction to, and in violation of, the woman I was raised to be” (Moraga 43).  If Moraga were to know the story between Irene and Clare, she would probably say “maybe like me they now feel they have little to lose” as well as talk about how Irene is “miserably attracted to women and fighting it” (Moraga 42).  Of the Feminist Movement, Moraga says that it tried to convince her that “lesbian sexuality was naturally different than heterosexual sexuality” (Moraga 44).  Kurt Hiller wrote a speech entitled “Appeal to the Second International Congress for Sexual Reform on Behalf of an Oppressed Human Variety” where he suggests at homosexuals are “outlawed because their feeling and acts are ‘contrary to nature.’  However, their feelings and acts are rooted in their constitution, components of their character, something dictated to them by nature…we are obligated to recognize this nature as being indeed perfectly natural—shocking, perhaps, but nothing that deserves to be either denied or defamed… Same-sex love is not a mockery of nature, but rather nature at play; and anyone who maintains the contrary—that love is intended to serve the propagation of the species, that homosexual or heterosexual potency is squandered on goals other than procreation—fails to consider the superabundance with which Nature in all her largesse, wastes” (1928).  Yet, Moraga also claims the Feminist Movement said that “reaching sexual ecstasy with a woman lover would never involve any kind of power struggle.  Women were different” (Moraga 44) and yet, there was a power struggle in her own bedroom; a taking turns of sort as the dominant being.
It could also be argued that perhaps Clare and Irene are only lesbians because they have passed into the white culture; the dominant culture.  It may not necessarily be to gain professional benefits, but it was to gain others.  According to Moraga, “white feminists confine themselves to in describing sexuality as based in white-rooted interpretations of dominance, submission, power-exchange, etc.  Although they are certainly part of the psychosexual lives of women of color, these boundaries would have to expand” (Moraga 45) to fit any culture.  Homosexuals just want to have the right to their own feelings, to love, to own their own bodies, to be people in general, and heterosexism takes that away by stigmatizing culture and sexual orientation.
In conclusion, the similarities between the Chicana culture, as well as the “passing” culture of African Americans are the heterosexism they face.  While Chicanas face harsher criticism from their very culture, “passing” African Americans need to feel more feared in that they have already been racially stigmatized when they were enslaved.  Sure, the Chicano culture had enslavements, yet they also enslaved African Americans as well.  Women are desirable, perhaps even more desirable than a man.  Men have always been the dominant culture; from military leaders, to presidents, to CEO’s of small, family owned business.  It was not until, perhaps, the 1990s before women became recognized as part of a dominant species, and even now, we are still looked down upon as we climb corporate ladders, rise in politics, and fight our oppression.  We see the oppression only because history tells it to us, yet, sitting here, I only feel oppressed because I do it to myself.  Sure money constraints, but my limitations, as far as I am concerned, are limitless; I just choose to shy away, to avoid the spotlight.  There are many women activists out there, fighting for the oppression of women like me, and are not afraid to admit it.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Happiness Neglected

            For years, many of us have clung on to every word that just about every philosopher has ever said.  Whether it is coming from Charles Darwin, Jean-Paul Sartre, Aristotle, John Locke or Lao-Tzu, those that have come before us, have broken down human nature, and were so kind enough to write it down for us.  I would argue that the ideas that stem from philosophers are ultimately guidelines for an individual to follow.  I would also argue that it is up to that individual to follow them.  Compared to the times of such philosophers, some as early as Before Christ, modern society does not fully uphold the old ways of philosophical thinking, yet we find their ideas interesting.
            In Aristotle’s The Proper Function of Man and Its Relation to the Good Life, Aristotle suggests that the highest good is happiness.  He says that things “such as wealth, flutes, and instruments generally are desired as a means to something else… But the highest good is clearly something final (Aristotle 334).  He goes on to say that ‘happiness, above all else, fits the description of what we are seeking, for we always desire happiness for its own sake and never as a means to something else” (Aristotle 334).  For example, it is payday and you have had, what you deem, the worst week ever.  Sure, you have bills to pay, but you are always doing things for everyone else and it is time that you do something for yourself.  So you shop.  When you are done shopping, you feel relieved and excited that you have a new outfit.  Now, I can be sexist and make this seem as a total female thing, but I, myself, know plenty of males who blow their money on shopping just to make themselves happy.  In other words, material things are what make us happy in the end and Aristotle says that in the end, the ultimate outcome is happiness.  Now I am not saying he intended us to be materialistic, rather, Aristotle claimed that “we may safely then define a happy man as one whose activity accords with perfect virtue, it is necessary to consider virtue, as this will perhaps be the best way of studying happiness… It is clear that it is human virtue which we have to consider; for the good which we are seeking is, as we said, human good, and the happiness, human happiness.  By human virtue or excellence we mean not that of the body, but that of the soul, and by happiness we mean an activity of the soul” (Aristotle 336).  The ultimate question is; how is happiness attainable?  Aristotle goes on to list things such as wisdom and intelligence that come from teaching as well as generosity and self-control which stem from habit.  “From this fact it is clear that no moral virtue is implanted in us by nature; a law of nature cannot be altered by habituation” (Aristotle 338).  Basically, Aristotle believes that happiness just happens and that “it is said that there is no difference between the happy and the miserable during their lifetime” (Aristotle 337).  Another piece of evidence that also backs up this claim of Aristotle’s happiness is that “A stone naturally tends to fall downwards, and it cannot be habituated or trained to rise upwards, even if we were to throw it upwards ten thousand times… It is neither by nature then nor in defiance of nature that virtues are implanted in us.  Nature gives us the capacity of receiving them, and that capacity is perfected by habit” (Aristotle 338).  Growing up, we have often been told to treat others the way we are to be treated; the golden rule.  Aristotle would agree with the parent who teaches their child this saying “thus it is no small matter which habits are instilled in us in early childhood; on the contrary, this makes a considerable difference, or rather all the difference” (Aristotle 338).  In my opinion, there is not too much of the golden rule going on anymore.
            Mencius was an only child, and being an only child myself, I think we naturally feel and understand the qualities Mencius describes and believes in his On Human Goodness piece is that we are “endowed” with: “a sense of pity, of shame, of respect, and of right and wrong” (Mencius 339) from birth.  In other words, as only children, we feel these emotions regardless of the situation, whereas a brother or sister may be able to split the emotions.  However, I do believe all individuals feel these emotions or “qualities” regardless of the amount of siblings.  “From his sense of pity comes jen (Humanity); from his sense of shame comes yi (Justice); from his sense of respect, li (the observance of rites); from his sense of right and wrong, chih (wisdom).  Jen, yi, li and chih do not soak in from without; we have them within ourselves.  It is simply that we are not always consciously thinking about them.  So I say, ‘Seek them and you have them.  Disregard them and you lose them’” (Mencius 341). Mencius who said “man’s nature is neither inherently good nor bad” and that “a man can be made to do evil, but this is nothing to do with his nature.  It happens only after the intrusion of some exterior force” (Mencius 340).  In a sense, I believe that Mencius encourages the individual to go with the flow, much like Aristotle would enjoy.
            Even though Immanuel Kant argues Aristotle’s point in his excerpt The Good Will and Morality, I would agree that good will is an attribute of happiness.  I would also contest that it is a formed habit.  Kant argues that intelligence and “other talents of the mind… are undoubtedly good and desirable in many respects.  However, these gifts of nature may also become extremely bad and mischievous if the will or character that puts them to use is no good” (Kant 344).   Kant also argues that “the true purpose of reason, for which it was absolutely necessary, is to produce a will that is good in itself and not merely as a means to something else.  While this will is not the sole and complete good, it must be the supreme good that is the condition of every other good, even of the desire of happiness” (Kant 346).  In other words, the action must be motivated by the nature of intention rather than some other external factor; such as self gratification.  The action must be motivated by good will.  A formed habit would include generosity and Kant would agree that generosity would be more meaningful coming from someone who has not been habitually made generous; that is, someone being generous out of the blue has more good will than someone who is generally generous.
            In Jeremy Bentham’s The Principle of Utility, Bentham goes on to say that happiness is simple; increase the pleasure and decrease the pain.  Bentham brings some Mencius in by saying “on the one hand the standard of right and wrong, on the other the chain of causes and effects are fastened to their throne.  They govern us in all we do, in all we say, in all we think: every effort we can make to throw off our subjection, will serve but to demonstrate and confirm it” (Bentham 351).  Bentham goes against Kant in that he, Bentham, believes that seeking pleasure and avoiding pain are natural inclinations when it comes to forming morality.  Basically, the principle of utility requires the individual to choose between the outcomes of pain or pleasure.  I am sure there are plenty of masochists’s to go around.
            As human beings, we are generally social beings.  I would say, that being social is an attribute to human happiness, through the basis of morality.  In Enrique Jose Varona’s The Sentiment of Solidarity as the Foundation of Ethics, Varona believes that morality is based off of social solidarity and that one develops through interactions with other people.  Varona claims that “morality is nothing but the individual’s more or less clear sentiment of his dependence upon the social body—in a word, of social solidarity” (Varona 354).  As humans, we tend to conform to those who have similar tastes as us, whether it be in one form, or many saying “the majority of men can lack even the most remote idea of what solidarity is, yet all their emotions, images, ideas, and judgments with respect to their fellows will nevertheless be comprised within this supreme sentiment” (Varona 355).
            With this being said, I believe modern society has lost their way from what it truly means to be happy.  We have become materialistic is many ways; it is about who has the best clothes, who drives the fanciest car, who has the best job, who has the most money.  In a sense, we have lost our solidarity in that we have the urge to be better than each other.  We are being raised that it is not what you know, it is who you know.  I am not saying happiness is easy to obtain.  Hell, if it was, I would have been jumping for joy the last ten years of my life.  The saying that there are many bumps on the road of life holds true, but it is up to the individual to approach it in a way of either what is going to cause the most pain and what is going to cause the most pleasure, what will give me the gift of intelligence, a better sense of right a wrong, and whether or not what we are doing is out of the pure goodness of our heart.  We create our own happiness.  Philosophers have been trying to tell it to us for years.  I think it is about time we just shut up and listen.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Outline for my paper

      I.                   Idea
a.       Using Nella Larsen’s Passing and Cherrie Moraga’s From a Long Line of Vendidas: Chicanas and Feminism to describe what race and being a lesbian have in common.
b.    Argue that Irene is a lesbian as opposed to straight
II.                Historical Background
a.       Women’s right to vote with 19th Amendment in 1920
b.      Gay rights 1920s-1930s
                                                              i.      Kurt Hiller: Appeal… on Behalf of an Oppressed Human Variety (1928)
c.       Brief touch on 1930s-present day gay rights
                                                              i.      Frieda Smith: Frieda Smith Tells It Like It Is (1971)
                                                            ii.      Michelle Parkerson: Jericho: A Call for Activism in the Black Gay Community (1983)
                                                          iii.      Malcolm Lazin 20th Anniversary of the First National March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Rights (1999)
III.             Nella Larsen: Passing
a.       Plot Summary
b.      Race depends on other peoples perception of you
c.       Irene
                                                              i.      Cares about what people think (p. 21)
                                                            ii.      Marriage to Brian is flawed
1.      he wants to escape to Brazil
                                                          iii.      Clare
1.      p. 14- first description of Clare
2.      p. 24 hints towards curiosity for Clare
3.      p. 28- description of Clare through the eyes of Irene
4.      p. 35 Irene describes Clare’s voice
5.      “She was through with Clare Kendry” (31)
a.       Getting over someone is not that easy
6.      p. 44 suggests the threat of Irene being exposed as a “passing” lesbian
a.       even more unacceptable to be a lesbian of color than to be a white one.
7.      p. 51 suggests Irene misses Clare
8.      p. 65 suggests the guilty conscience of Irene towards Clare
9.      p. 65 talks about “love affair” which references the illicit love affair between the two women
10.  p. 68 there is a talk with Clare
11.  p. 73 description of Clare
                                                          iv.      Idea
1.      Kills Clare; if I can’t have her, no one can. 
2.      Threat of exposure to being a lesbian
a.       Clare knew
3.      Get rid of Clare, get rid of emotional attachment
d.      Clare
                                                              i.      Fake
                                                            ii.      Tease (not gender specific)
1.      p. 14 for Clare and man (John Bellew?) followed by Clare and the waiter
2.      p. 30 for Irene and Clare
3.      p. 46 “ache to see more of you” and “my love to you always”
a.       whether it be typical female interaction, or intended as sexual
                                                          iii.      Manipulative
1.      She makes Irene feel the need to include her in activities
                                                          iv.      More into “passing” as white than Irene
1.      Hides her race altogether especially from her husband who is racist
2.      p. 35, p. 36 Clare and Gertrude reference to being glad their children are white; or at least light enough to “pass”
3.      p. 28 reference to money; “passing”
a.       White people= “American dream”; house, picket fence, as well as rights to an education, equal opportunity
                                                            v.      p. 47 reference to a Clare coming out
1.      she knows about Irene being sexually attracted; her desire for a woman
                                                          vi.      p. 52 reference to Clare acting
e.       Passing for Irene could be her passing into lesbianism
                                                              i.      p. 56 reference to Zulena comment on passing
1.      can be taken multiple ways
f.       In “passing” as white, they are “free” African Americans with limitations
                                                              i.      They are “fake”
IV.             Cherrie Moraga: From a Long Line of Vendidas: Chicanas and Feminism
a.       Chicana women, daughters, etc., are to wait on their men
                                                              i.      Male dominated culture
1.      the need “to determine how, when, and with whom his women are sexual.”
                                                            ii.      “You are a traitor to your race if you do not put the man first.”
                                                          iii.      “I don’t mean to imply that women need to have men around to feel at home in our culture, but that the way one understands culture is influenced by men.”
                                                          iv.      “It is the daughters who can be relied on”
b.      Chicana’s stigmatized as “sexual persons”
                                                              i.      Stems from the Malintzin myth
c.       p. 36 reference to a Chicana mother example
                                                              i.      “son gets her love for free”
d.      p. 37 reference to mom and daughter conversation; mom in tears until the son calls and then she’s fine
                                                              i.      “My brother has always come first”
e.       “Seduction and betrayal.  Since I’ve grown up, no woman cares for me for free.  There is always a price.  My love”
f.       Chicana feminist can not reference white women theories whereas Chicano men can cite from a white (male) theorist
g.      “To be critical of one’s culture is not to betray that culture.”
h.      “In either case, the strategy for the elimination of racism and sexism cannot occur through the exclusion of one problem or the other… The only people who can afford not to recognize this are those who do not suffer this multiple oppression.”
                                                              i.      Being a gay/lesbian of color, race
                                                            ii.      Can also be used as a reference to Irene’s “passing”
i.        “The one aspect of our identity which has been uniformly ignored by every existing political movement in this country is sexuality, both as a source of oppression and a means of liberation.  Although other movements have dealt with this issue, sexual oppression and desire have never been considered specifically in relation to the lives of women of color.  Sexuality, race, and sex have usually been presented in contradiction to each other, rather than as part and parcel of a complex web of personal and political identity and oppression.”
j.        “We believe the more severely we protect the sex roles within the family, the stronger we will be as a unit in opposition to the Anglo threat.”
k.      “Love severely undermines the potential radicalism of the ideology they [Chicana feminists] are trying to create.”
l.        Chicana homosexuality
                                                              i.      “Homosexuality does not pose a great threat to society.  Male homosexuality has always been a “tolerated” aspect of Mexican/Chicano society, as long as it remains ‘fringe’… but lesbianism, in any form, and male homosexuality which openly avows both the sexual and emotional elements of the bond, challenges the very foundation of familia.”
                                                            ii.      “At all costs, la familia must be preserved.”
                                                          iii.      “An act of self-betrayal” because she is a woman “taking control of her own sexual identity and destiny.”
1.      “taking control of her own sexual destiny is purported to be a ‘traitor to her race’ by contributing to the ‘genocide’ of her people.”
                                                          iv.      Homosexuality a “white man’s disease”
1.      Sonia Lopez “reinforces the idea that lesbianism is not only a white thing, but an insult to be avoided at all costs.”
2.      “Homosexuality is his disease with which he sinisterly infects Third World people, men and women alike.”
3.      “White lesbian is seen as the white man’s agent.”
                                                            v.      “Maybe like me they now feel they have little to lose.”
                                                          vi.      “Had I been born of a Chicano father [suggests he’s white?], I sometimes think I never would have been able to write a line or participate in a demonstration, having to repress all questioning in order that the ultimate question of my sexuality would never emerge… The Chicana lesbians I know whose fathers are very much a part of their lives are seldom “out” to their families [suggests being closeted].
                                                        vii.      “Miserably attracted to women and fighting it.”
                                                      viii.      “I am a Chicana lesbian.  My own particular relationship to being a sexual person; and a radical stand in direct contradiction to, and in violation of, the woman I was raised to be.”
1.      raised to be heterosexual
                                                          ix.      “Lesbianism has become an ‘idea’—a political response to male sexual aggression, rather than a sexual response to a woman’s desire for another woman.  In this way, many ostensibly heterosexual women who are not active sexually can call themselves lesbians.  Lesbians ‘from the neck up’”
                                                            x.      “As culture influences our sexuality, so too does heterosexism, marriage, and men as the primary agents of those institutions.”
                                                          xi.      “A political to women does not equate with lesbianism [as radical lesbians suggest].  As a Chicana lesbian, I write of the connection my own feminism has had with my sexual desire for women.
1.      you don’t need to be a lesbian to be a feminist—just remember the lesbians (citation?)
m.    Sexual power struggles
                                                              i.      “Somehow reaching sexual ecstasy with a woman lover would never involve any kind of power struggle.  Women were different.  We could simply magically ‘transcend’ these ‘old notions,’ just by seeking spiritual transcendence in bed.  The fact of the matter was that all these power struggles of ‘having’ and ‘being had’ were being played out in my own bedroom.”
                                                            ii.      “White feminists confine themselves to in describing sexuality are based in white-rooted interpretations of dominance, submission, power-exchange, etc.  Although they are certainly part of the psychosexual lives of women of color, these boundaries would have to be expanded and translated to fit my people.”
                                                          iii.      The idea that women like to be controlled; rape involves control
V.                Other notes
a.       Women oppression
                                                              i.      “Half of the world’s workers are females who suffer discrimination not only in the workplace, but also at home and in all the areas of sex-related abuse” (Moraga 38).
b.      This idea that behind every good man is a good woman
                                                              i.      Never mentioned
c.       Women as desirable
                                                              i.      Seductive; flirtatious
d.      Lesbians of color
                                                              i.      Homosexuality is seen as a mental illness
e.       Sexual intercourse with a man and emotional attachment to a woman
                                                              i.      2 relationships
f.       Currently reading Marilyn Frye’s Lesbian Feminism and the Gay Rights Movement: Another View of Male Supremacy, Another Separatism
g.      In process of Judith Butler and Bodies That Matter
                                                              i.      ordering

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Topic for my Feminism Paper

I wanted to write about sexual orientation somehow.  I guess, discovering it using race and culture.  However, I wanted to focus more on the female aspect of sexual orientation; lesbianism and being bisexual.  I'm currently reading Passing by Nella Larson and I've noticed several things about Clare (and Irene) that hint toward bisexuality (seeing as how they are both married).  The way Irene describes Clare, and the way Clare addresses Irene.  Then I got to thinking about two potentional topics; first, I think women like to flirt/charm whether they know they are doing it or not.  A flirt with life perhaps?  Second, in Passing, could bisexuality be a form of passing?  Sexuality in women in general is a hot topic.  We as women are sexual beings, and I think sometimes we don't realize it.  We have desires, and sometimes out of fear, or social "norms", we do not act upon them.  As far as Clare and Irene go, negro lesbians would be a big no-no in their time, even though they are "passing" as white.

I brought this to the attention of my professor.  She says I "have a very good reading of Passing already and that there's a great deal of material on the homoerotics (and internalized homophobia, or "homosexual panic") in that text."  She also suggested an essay by Cherrie Moraga called From a Long Line of Bendidas: Chicanas and Feminism as "another representation of queer women of color and the particularities of their relationships to 'hegemonic culture.'"  She also suggests Judith Buttler Bodies That Matter ("gender perfomativity) specifically chapter 6 where she "spends a lot of time discussing what she means by these terms specifically in relation to Passing."

So here I sit.  Questions about Queer Theory.